Okay. So I was able to watch 'Crazy 'Little Thing Called Love' just this week. Hoho. Credits to my Thesis Buddies :) As I was watching the film, I remembered my very first story ever written, the 'Best friends'. It turned out to be similar in the first part, but differ with its ending.
I mind posting my story here because really, it's oh so badly written, and untouched (unedited). I was only first year high school when I wrote it, and it's been years after I re-read it. I tried to edit it but chose not to. HAHA. I just would like to preserve my innocence in terms of writing, and.. and.. emotions while it was in the verge of completion. HAHAHA. (woo! umi-innocence at emotions XD).
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Anyway, for those who have read it, it was always the question, "Why not a happy ending?" I just don't believe in happy endings, that's maybe the reason why my stories are ineffective and 'corny' if I end it with cheers and joys. Booo me! Hoho. I'll let you read it if you want, just tell me. Just bare with my grammar and way of writing. :)))
What others say is true, that you cannot detach your self from your writing. :)
I miss writing those kind. I felt that this passion stopped when I became too busy with school stuffs but I'm so disappointed with my self. If this is a passion of mine, then why school works became a hindrance? Okay, such a failure. Let's change and continue what I've started to improve :)
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Sunday, March 6, 2011
because of love
I was about to blog something else, but my friends started to pm me and talk about their love life. So, I decided to write about this one this time. :)
Many of my friends share their stories with me, and maybe, some of them wonder where the hell my stupid advices come from. Sometimes, when I'm in the mood, these thoughts would just come out from my mouth, that's why most of the time, I end up my sentence saying "ano ulit sinabi ko?". Seriously, my advices come from nowhere. Also, I tend to be frank with my friends (which I think they hate? :))) especially when I see and feel that they are already beyond the limits.
And because I'm in the mood, let's put pareng love as my subject (ALL BASED IN MY OPINION :D)
1. Why make the first move?
Years back, women are known to be Ma. Clara and men serenade them. But now, things are reversed. It is true that not having a boyfriend in this generation is a bit of weird. Also, Some girls sometimes envy those who are committed, and out of desperation, they do make the first move in terms of relationship. Let him fall for who you really are and not because of your effort to get his heart.
2. Why stay if he wants you to leave?
It's like, you will look like a dog who needs a home, pleading him to adopt you. If he loves you, you won't need to ask for his love. So, why stay if you know you'll get nothing? You'll be just wasting your time loving the wrong man.
3. Why stay if you think you he's hurting you too much?
Many of my friends share their stories with me, and maybe, some of them wonder where the hell my stupid advices come from. Sometimes, when I'm in the mood, these thoughts would just come out from my mouth, that's why most of the time, I end up my sentence saying "ano ulit sinabi ko?". Seriously, my advices come from nowhere. Also, I tend to be frank with my friends (which I think they hate? :))) especially when I see and feel that they are already beyond the limits.
And because I'm in the mood, let's put pareng love as my subject (ALL BASED IN MY OPINION :D)
1. Why make the first move?
Years back, women are known to be Ma. Clara and men serenade them. But now, things are reversed. It is true that not having a boyfriend in this generation is a bit of weird. Also, Some girls sometimes envy those who are committed, and out of desperation, they do make the first move in terms of relationship. Let him fall for who you really are and not because of your effort to get his heart.
2. Why stay if he wants you to leave?
It's like, you will look like a dog who needs a home, pleading him to adopt you. If he loves you, you won't need to ask for his love. So, why stay if you know you'll get nothing? You'll be just wasting your time loving the wrong man.
3. Why stay if you think you he's hurting you too much?
"Mahal ko siya ee". The most common and "BULOK" answer I often hear when men betray women. Though it's hurtful in her side, still, women manage to forgive them all because of love. Oh love, why are you keeping some women super duper martiiirr????
4. In-love?
I shall say, fling. This is one thing that I kept on wondering why there are women who are into this. Yes, they are having fun, but, this is just a complete waste of time. Because, you'll never know who and when the right guy is coming because in your mind, is just having fun.
5. It's not the looks my dear.
Look within. And you'll know what true love is :)
So what if you're single? At least, you're giving yourself a peace of mind. Think about this.
Life is short, why waste your time with men who doesn't know your worth? Why waste time with men whom you know just playing with you? Why waste your time? Explore the world. It's true that it is good to have adventures with someone, BELIEVING he's the one, while holding your other hand. But, don't you think it is better to take a journey alone and end it, meeting the man whom you will be spending with forever?
Time is fast, but why in a hurry? There's no need because if the right man comes, then he will.
There's nothing wrong in falling. Just know your limits. You are smart. Don't let yourself be blinded. Learn when to let go. Learn to move on. Learn to fall in love again :)
ANOTHER NON-SENSE EH? :))))
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